Nothing can be as devastating as being betrayed by people that you care and love a lot. That is why many ladies will take their time before trusting a guy fully. Ladies will ask questions such as will he cheat on me, is he married to another woman, is he a serial lover, will he break my heart? These are very normal questions that every woman who is dating asks occasionally. Well, as much as guys are smart when it comes to cheating there are obvious signs that you should watch out for before you accuse him for cheating. One, if he spends less time with you than he previously did when you were newly in love. Two, if he becomes secretive all of a sudden, and heaps blame on you at the very least provocation. Three if he gives excuses to avoid being with you or to avoid responsibilities. A sudden change of behavior such as becoming an alcoholic, smoking heavily should be a warning sign that he is trying to cover up his cheating behaviors. Always be sure of any accusations you might have on your man before confronting him. This is because it could lead to mistrust and acrimonious relationship especially if the accusations turn out to be false.